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May 19, 2021

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Mother, Your Gateway to Abundance and Prosperity

What is the connection between our mother and the manifestation of abundance and prosperity in our lives?

Bert Hellinger, the creator of the Family Constellation methodology, says “We relate to Life the way we relate to Mother.”

When we reject our mother, we face strife and a blockage in every area of our lives. However, when we take our mother into our hearts, just as she is, we will succeed in all areas of life and open the gates of prosperity for us.

Why is this? Because when we reject our mother, we reject life itself, with all the wonderful things it can bring us. Our relationship with our mother forms a template for everything possible for us. In other words, our relationship with our mother becomes a matrix that will be imprinted in all areas of life: love, relationships, health, and our ability to recognize and express our unique gifts.

When we heal our relationship with our mother, we reconnect to life and reveal our true self, hidden beneath trauma and stories. Healing the mother wound frees the stuck energy causing so many blockages in our lives and naturally guides us to express our inner gifts and our sacred female energy, which is pure creativity.

Our mother is the source of life and the first source of nourishment and safety. When we were born, the first natural movement was towards the mother as we took her breast, seeking her milk. A mother’s nourishment gives us a sense of abundance, warmth, safety, and wealth. A mother is a whole universe for her baby; she is the sole provider of everything.

Bert Hellinger

When it comes to professional success, healing the mother’s wound is crucial. When we reject our mother, we also reject life and professional possibilities. How we relate to our mother is also how we relate to life and our profession. When we take mother to our hearts, just as she is, we are taking in life, and we will create happiness and purpose in our professional field. Taking the mother to our hearts brings a natural order to our energy field where finally, love can flow. Then we become a vibrational match for abundance and prosperity by taking in what life offers.

As Bert Hellinger said, “Money, mother, and life are equivalent energies. How we treat, our mother is also how we treat life and Money.”

The Interrupted Movement towards Mother

For many of us, childhood was not a lovely experience. We didn’t feel safe or nourished in the way we needed, and we grew up feeling angry and resentful. We do not trust life. Early separation from our mother can often prevent us from taking her to our hearts. For example, if we were put in an incubator or our mother got sick and could not take care of us, perhaps we were given away to another caregiver. The separation from our mother caused us great pain and instability. We felt unsafe and hopeless, and to cope and survive, we made an unconscious decision to move away from our mother. We changed our inner attitude from seeking our mother to “I don’t need my mother; I can do it all by myself.” We rejected and pushed our mother away and became independent early on.

The early separation from our mother and the change in our inner attitude caused the interrupted reaching out movement or break in the bond with our mother. This early interrupted movement will manifest in every area of our lives. In romantic partnerships, for instance, we will not move toward our partner because this movement reminds our bodies of the trauma of early separation from our mother. We cannot bear our partner’s closeness and reject them in one way or another. The partner triggers our early wound with our mother.

What is the Solution?

In Family Constellations, we can resolve the break in the bond with our mother by going inwardly back to when the rupture occurred and retaking that movement slowly and gently towards the mother again. As we move back to mother and take her in slowly, we reconnect to the flow of love and prosperity and move towards life and success in all areas. Mother is life, abundance, and success.

How was your relationship with your mother when you were a child? How would you describe your mother today?

Imagine that your mother stands in front of you. How do you feel saying the following healing sentences to her: “Thank you, mom for everything you could do for me, and what you couldn’t, I am now doing for myself,” “Mother, I take you just as you are. You are the right one for me.”

What is coming up for you? Do you feel like moving towards your mother or away from her? Are you feeling gratitude or resentment? Is there any hint of judgment about your mother?

If you felt the need to pull back from your mother or perhaps felt negative feelings toward her, you might benefit from exploring further your relationship and bond with your mom. You can unleash your inner wealth and abundance by taking your mother into your heart.

Adriana Romero, PhD

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Family Constellations is a transgenerational approach that explores the individual’s place within their family system. When a family system is balanced, the forces of love and belonging can flow freely, embracing and supporting every member.